Wedding Wednesday~ My Brother’s Proposal!

As I’m about to travel home this weekend for my niece Abby’s 1st birthday, I remembered that I forgot to write a blog I promised Alison. My brother, Kyle, got engaged Christmas Eve to his girlfriend of six-years Shannon. I got to set up and witness the entire thing and to see the utter shock and happiness all within seconds come over her face. It filled me with so much joy. I cannot wait to finally welcome Shannon into my family. And as big as my family is, we are all so excited and cannot wait to have another family member to add to this crazy bunch. I thought I’d share the story of the day and some of the pictures I happened to capture as I was hiding in my little corner.

The corner I was hiding in during the proposal.

I was working at Cafe Caturra my part-time job, in the back rolling silverware when one of my co-workers came back and said a guy and a girl are here to see you so. I came out front and I was surprised to see it was my brother and his friend Lauren. He said I have something to tell you. I braced   myself for bad news as a huge smile came over his face and he said, “I just bought Shannon an engagement ring.” I automatically teared up and hugged him. I couldn’t believe my brother was getting married. After my initial shock left me, I went into planning mode. Kyle told me since he finally decided to purchase the ring, he just couldn’t wait any longer to propose. So, we decided Christmas break was perfect.

Our neighborhood surrounds a man-made lake and has a beautiful clubhouse in front of it. Since it was winter, Kyle decided that’s where he wanted to propose. Shannon and Kyle have spent many memorable times at the lake, and it was the perfect place for him to surprise Shannon with the engagement. It was already decorated with Christmas decorations and the amazing Paula who works at the store with us, sent me home with a  box full of tea light candles to add the finishing touches.

The day finally came and Kyle wasn’t nervous at all. He had chosen the song he was going to play during the moment his best friend, Andrew, had arrived from Winston-Salem to celebrate. Of course I was there to help out as well, and  Shannon was still clueless. So, we started to set up the clubhouse.

 

Thanks Paula for the candles!Andrew lighting all the candles

Practicing his pose

The plan was for Shannon to eat with her friend Heather. Heather was also recently engaged and asked Shannon to come with her to a meeting with her wedding photographer with her in Biltmore Lake, where we live, Shannon of course would agree  to go with Heather. Then instead of Heather pulling into  where her fake photographer lives she pulled into the lake parking lot and informed Shannon she had to blindfold her. Kyle is hiding in a bush at this point and walks up and opens the door. Shannon hears his voice, and he  walks her to the clubhouse and then unties her blindfold in front of the tree. Here are some fun pictures of us trying to find his hiding spot before she arrives.

I made him pose with this tree. I'm pretty sure I quoted, "Look manly, it's your last shot as a single man!"

Trying to find a good hiding place

And of course, the plan went just as we hoped. Except Shannon was more shocked than we thought she would be. Once blindfolded she said she knew what was coming but, she was just so shocked that Kyle never got to actually be one one knee, so that previous picture is the only picture I got of him on one knee. But, the love and the happiness that consumed the room cannot even put into words. So I’ll just share my last pictures with you. Sorry for the poor quality, keep in mind I’m not the best photographer and I was hidden in a corner :)

They're ENGAGED! She said Yes!

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Here Comes the Bride…to Our Bridal Open House

Thanks sooooo much to the brides, grooms, families, friends who came out to our bridal open house last Wednesday and Saturday. The gals at Cute Buttons (and Tiki too) were inundated with great questions and loved meeting all of the people who are getting ready for their upcoming nuptials! We learned that navy and forms of oranges and greens are hot colors this year. We also learned that so many brides are still interested in pockets ~ the type of invitation that keeps all of the pieces securely in one place. And of course letterpress is always a popular favorite.

Thanks to Belk’s for providing the great china pieces and to Lana Addison for their gorgeous bridal attire. Here are a few pics from the event. Of course, we had to snap Tiki caught red-handed trying to nibble on some of the flowers!

 

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Wedding Wednesday~ Kids or No Kids

So the million-dollar question in our boutique lately has been this, “How do you politely state that your wedding ceremony and reception for adults only?” We understand that you want your ceremony to be filled with fun and endless dancing, not memories of trying to tune out the baby crying during your vows. So, here are just a couple of tips you can try to help politely tell your guests what you want:

My cousin Grace at a family wedding this summer, courtesy of Ryan Dearth photography

  • Use your reply card as a gateway. If you don’t want your stationer to print the words “Adult Affair” on your invitation (which is acceptable) you can use your reply card as your gateway. Simply work with your stationer to create wording on your reply card that asks “Number of Adults Attending”. This will show the guest that their little Sally isn’t included in the reception head count. Use an extra line for guests to check if they need recommendations for childcare.
  • Address your wedding invitation inner envelopes to indicate which family members are actually invited to the wedding. If your invitations come with inner and outer envelopes, address the outer envelope to The Smith Family, and then address the inner envelope specifically to Johnston and Margot. This will subtly signal to the family to make arrangements for their adorable three-year-old, Maddie.
  • Use your wedding website as a resource for your guests to learn more about your upcoming day including the information about the adult affair.

 

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Wedding Wednesday ~ Wedding Videographers

So, The Carolina Inn Wedding Show was on Sunday and it couldn’t have gone better for us here at Cute Buttons.

We met so many great brides and even new vendors that we are excited to hopefully work with in the future. One vendor that really captivated our attention was Inkspot Crow Films, a wedding documentary company by created by husband and wife couple, Phillip and Mackenzie Henry. Their table was directly in front of us, and they had the cutest set-up which, included a large computer screen displaying wedding videos on a reel that neither I nor Alison could keep our eyes off of for the entire show.   So, I couldn’t help myself but to do a little more research on this amazing couple and watch every wedding film they had on their website.

We couldn’t resist featuring their video in this week’s Wedding Wednesday blog.. I can’t explain to you how difficult it was to choose just ONE wedding video for this blog because, honestly I fell in love with almost every single one of them. They captured the love, the happiness and the joy that instantly brings a smile to our faces. But, one of the most unique things they captured is the special glances and the giddiness between the bride and groom that no picture can capture.  So, I hope you take the time to watch this amazing video because, I have no doubt it will bring a smile to your face.

 

Grady & Amanda : wedding highlights from Inkspot Crow Films on Vimeo.

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Wedding Wednesday – When Do We Order the Invites?

"Dash Invitation" from one of our wedding vendors, Checkerboard

You know how you get a question that if you had a dollar for every time someone asked you, you would be living in the South of France. Well here’s that one we get here: When should we order our wedding invitations?

Since we are an invitation boutique, we do have the answer. Invitations need to be ordered at least 3 to 4 months in advance so you have plenty of time to work on them with your stationer, get your proofs back to review and give the OK to go into production. While you are waiting, you should take that time to be finalizing your guest lists so when you get the call that they are ready, you’ll be ready to gt them over to the calligrapher or be prepared to address them yourselves. Remember, many vendors have guest addressing services which allow your envelopes to be addressed to your guests in the same font styles as your invites. Once again, planning ahead is the key!

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